Galentine's Day Purrr
Red vs Black
Zone 1, Central London
18:00 - 00:00, Wednesday 13 February, 2019
ONLY £20pp! And BYOB!
Join Rusé Rouge in an intimate dungeon in Angel for a special ladies-only BDSM play party. Open to all women, crossdressers and trans women; we ask that all guests engage only in non-heternormative sexual play.
DRESS: eveningwear, cocktail wear, fetish wear, latex, PVC, burlesque, lingerie, body paint, costumes, you name it! But keep the colors in red or black ;)
Kitted out with dungeon furniture, mood lighting and sultry sounds, all you need do is come... and enjoy. Bring any toys you’d especially like to play with - aftercare treats will be available. Bring yourselves, some booze you’d like to drink. Ticket cost to cover the venue.
We suggest an end time of 00:00, however it is an all night hire so those who wish to stay and continue play, may! No photography will be permitted except by the Rusé - if you don’t want to be photographed, just ask for a wristband when you arrive.
ALL ATTENDEES MUST BE VETTED. In order to receive the ticket purchase link, please send us your vetting details. And when we get yours completed - so we get to know you - Lion and I will send our details to you so you can get to know us!
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To join the Roar community, receive updates, and get first crack at earlybird tickets to all our events, provide your vetting information below.
Before joining, we require all guests to be thoroughly familiar with our Rules below.
By submitting your vetting details to us, you confirm that you have read and understood the following in full:
At any Roar event you will abide by all rules laid out below and any instructions given by Roar staff; and promise to conduct yourself with respect for all, in a way that will only further our creating a space of exploration and consent.
RULES AND PROCEDURES
1.) Do not touch people without gaining consent. Ever.
2.) If you are watching a scene, be respectful, keep a reasonable distance, do not try to get involved.
3.) Do not intervene in a scene unless you have been asked to join in.
4.) No solo masturbating unless part of a scene.
5.) No blood/knife/fire/water/toilet play. No CNC without first clearing it with Lion or Rusé.
Failure to comply with the rules as set out above will result in removal from the venue and exclusion from any future events.
If you see somebody behaving in a way that isn't respectful, or if you believe it is non-consensual please inform a member of staff immediately.
It is compulsory for everyone at the event to use the same safe word
and safe action so that there are no misunderstandings:
opening and closing both hands repeatedly
This word/action is to be used in the event a scene must stop for any reason - if any party is feeling uncomfortable, are in unwanted pain, or if there is any safety concern by those participating or an observer.
Consent is an essential part of the ROAR experience. We believe in enthusiastic, active, ongoing consent. Any CNC scenes must be pre-negotiated and discussed with a member of staff. Failure to comply with these rules may result in activity that is deemed criminal, and in this instance the perpetrator will be reported by the management team to the authorities.
1.) In order to be invited back to our partner venues, we must respect the spaces. Do no damage or deface the venue property.
2.) Some mess is understandable and ROAR will conduct thorough cleaning after each event. However, please clean up after yourself (area, furniture, toys, etc).
3.) Breakage: if you happen to break anything (especially glass), be sure to notify staff members to ensure it is cleaned up quickly in order to keep guests safe.
While ROAR aim to keep all events open, welcoming and diverse, in order to ensure all guests mix together well, we curate the guest list for most of our events. This means that not everyone will make it onto every guest list. Contributing factors for individual events may include age, sex, sexual preference, location and party size.
Our ROAR mixed play parties are generally a 50/50 mix of women and men, from 19-45 on average (there is no age restriction for our parties).
For all new attendees, we vet via the form at the top of this page, and for single gentlemen we may also request one or more of the following:
1.) Interview: Meet with one of the organisers for a coffee or a drink or via skype and discuss your previous experiences and expectations. This may cover your sexual preferences, kinks and limits. It also allows you a chance to ask further questions about the event, the space, the attendees and us as the organisers.
2.) Recommendation: If a friend of yours is already a friend of ROAR's, have them contact us to recommend you for our events. They should include in their email a list of any events they have attended with you, and a statement of your character and conduct at said events.
3.) Buddy System: Guests may be asked to attend with a 'buddy' - this can be your significant other, Dom, sub or friend. As we have a zero tolerance policy, if either one of the 'buddies' offends or harms another guest, or willfully disrupts the event in any way, both 'buddies' will be ejected and will be banned from all future ROAR events.
We are committed to building a welcoming community for those traveling the dark path with us. To do that, we ask all ROAR guests to participate before each event.
Kik Chat Group: Before each party, class or retreat, we offer the opportunity for all participants to join a Kik chat group and introduce themselves. This helps everyone get to know whom they'll be meeting on the night, and gets us talking and excited ahead of time.
Munch: We frequently all go for a drink in a Central London bar for social drinks (in vanilla attire). Again this lets everyone get to know one another and have a good chat. This also allows us to see how the vibe of the group is developing and weed out any issues that might arise, nipping it in the bud early on. This lets people find out more about us and we can curate our parties from the awesome people we meet!
Fetlife: We ask that guests who wish to, friend us on Fetlife.com (username RoarParties) and post to the wall about your time with us, so future attendees will know what you really enjoyed about your ROAR event! We also request that our guests on Fetlife join the Roar Parties group, to keep updated on our goings on.